For some reason many Christians feel they cannot admit to having
feelings of depression; I actually talked to a doctor who is a Christian one
time about depression and he told me depression is strictly a spiritual
battle and if I read my bible more and prayed more I would get better. I tried that
for a few years and when it didn’t help, thankfully I had the wisdom to go to a
different doctor and get the help I needed.
In Psalm 42:1-6 it is apparent that David
battled depression. The scripture records he wrote: “As the
deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God. My soul
thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God? My
tears have been my food day and night, while people say to me all day
long, “Where is your God?” These things I remember as I pour out my soul:
how I used to go to the house of God under the protection of the Mighty One
with shouts of joy and praise among the festive throng. Why, my soul, are
you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I
will yet praise him, my Savior and my God. My soul is downcast within me;
therefore I will remember you from the land of the Jordan, the heights of Hermon—from
Mount Mizar.”
If you are battling depression
today, let me suggest three things that hopefully will help you get past it. First, you have to admit there is a problem.
In Psalm 42, David is not trying to hide it; he is openly admitting he has a
problem. Charles Spurgeon battled depression. He once preached a sermon
entitled The Christian’s Heaviness and Rejoicing where he said, “I was
lying upon my couch during this last week, and my spirits were sunken so low
that I could weep by the hour like a child, and yet I knew not what I wept
for—but a very slight thing will move me to tears just now—and a kind friend
was telling me of some poor old soul living near, who was suffering very great
pain, and yet she was full of joy and rejoicing. I was so distressed by the
hearing of that story, and felt so ashamed of myself, that I did not know what
to do; wondering why I should be in such a state as this; while this poor
woman, who had a terrible cancer, and was in the most frightful agony, could
nevertheless ‘rejoice with joy unspeakable, and full of glory.” In Numbers 11
Moses asked God to kill him so that he didn’t have to deal with the Hebrews
pettiness any longer? In Job 3 Job asked why didn’t he die when he came forth
from the womb? Jeremiah battled depression as he wrote in 20:14-15 “Cursed be the day in
which I was born! Let the day not be blessed in which my mother bore me! Let
the man be cursed who brought
news to my father, saying, ‘A male child has been born to you!’ making him very
glad.'"
Second, to deal with depression, you
have to acknowledge the possible causes of it. For some it is money problems and for others it involves people
problems. For some it is a matter of perspective; a bad attitude will ruin a
good day every time. For others there are physical problems, sickness or lack
of exercise for instance, that contribute to the depression. For some there are emotional issues like
the sudden loss of health or a relationship and for others there are definitely spiritual
causes that contribute to depressive feelings.
Third, you must attack the
feelings of depression. In 1 Kings 19, the prophet Elijah is depressed. He’s
just witnessed a huge victory over the prophets of Baal on Mt. Carmel, only to
have Queen Jezebel put a contract on his head. He finds himself under a ‘broom
tree’ and the way the Lord ministered to him is I believe the way He will
minister to you today. First God didn’t tell Elijah to ‘suck it up’ or ‘get over it’.
God didn’t judge him or chastise him. What he tells Elijah to do is rest. Our
bodies are designed to where we need rest and if we are not getting enough, they
tend to break down physically and emotionally. Second, God wants to make sure
Elijah rediscovers Him. He sends the prophet to Mt. Horeb which is called the ‘Mountain
of God’ some 200 miles away. There from outside the cave Elijah hid in, God
called to him and he rediscovered God. Third, Elijah experienced reassignment;
he was told to start serving others once again. And fourth he was told to build
relationships. Elijah was isolated and felt alone, and after he rested and
rediscovered the Lord, God provided for him a genuine friend named Elisha. God
made us for relationships; with Him and with others. One of the best ways to
deal with emotional pain is through personal contact with a friend.
For some of you reading this God is calling out to you. He’s not
calling from the fire, wind, or earthquake; He calls to you from His still
small voice. He is whispering to your soul, ‘It is time to leave the cave.’ As
Max Lucado once said, “God likes you
just the way you are but He loves you too much to let you stay that way.”
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